Safety & Trust at MindMyElder

This page explains the boundaries, expectations, and safety practices that support respectful, non-medical companionship on MindMyElder.

MindMyElder is built around presence, respect, and transparency.
Clear expectations and good communication are the foundation of safe, positive in-home companionship.

1️⃣ Safety practices & good habits

Verified profiles

We encourage all companions to complete their profiles with available verifications, such as:

  • Identity checks
  • Profile reviews
  • Optional references

Families may also request additional documents — such as references or a Police Clearance Certificate — directly from a companion if this provides extra peace of mind.

Secure messaging

  • Communicate securely through the MindMyElder platform
  • Avoid sharing personal contact details until both sides feel comfortable
  • Platform messaging helps protect privacy and keeps a clear communication record

Clear agreements

Some families and companions prefer a formal agreement; others rely on mutual understanding.

Good practice includes:

  • Clearly discussing expectations
  • Defining schedules, boundaries, and responsibilities
  • Confirming agreements verbally or in writing, if helpful

What matters most is that both sides feel safe, respected, and aligned.

2️⃣ Safety tips for families

  • Take time to review profiles and ask questions
  • Start with clear expectations
  • Trust your intuition
  • Communicate openly and regularly
  • Contact the MindMyElder team if support is needed

3️⃣ Safety tips for companions

  • Accept only roles that match your comfort and availability
  • Ask clarifying questions before committing
  • Respect privacy and personal boundaries
  • Keep communication transparent
  • Reach out for support if a situation feels unclear

4️⃣ Companions do and don't

What companions DO

Companions provide non-medical, in-home support, which may include:

  • Being a reassuring presence at home
  • Offering companionship and conversation
  • Assisting with everyday tasks (light meal preparation, tidying shared spaces, reminders)
  • Accompanying an older adult on short walks or outings (if agreed)
  • Supporting daily routines and social interaction
  • Alerting family members if something feels unusual or concerning

Companions support daily life and emotional well-being, not health care.

What companions DO NOT do

For everyone's safety and clarity, companions do not:

  • Provide medical care, nursing, or therapy
  • Administer medication or medical treatments
  • Perform clinical, hygienic, or personal care tasks
  • Make medical or emergency decisions
  • Replace professional caregivers or healthcare providers

If medical, nursing, or professional care is required, families should engage licensed professionals separately.

About medication reminders: Medication reminders support independence and routine. Companions never handle, administer, or make decisions about medication.

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Crisis & Emergency Guidance

When immediate help is needed

MindMyElder is not designed for emergencies.

If you believe someone is in immediate danger:

  • Call local emergency services immediately
  • Contact healthcare professionals
  • Notify family members or designated contacts

Guidance for companions

If an unexpected or concerning situation arises:

  • Prioritize safety
  • Do not attempt medical intervention
  • Contact emergency services if needed
  • Inform the family as soon as possible

Guidance for families

If your loved one's needs change:

  • Reassess whether companionship is still appropriate
  • Engage professional care if required
  • Adjust or end the arrangement if necessary

Reporting concerns

Users may report:

  • Safety concerns
  • Boundary issues
  • Misalignment with expectations

MindMyElder may review reports and take appropriate action, including account suspension.

🔍 Content Moderation

To protect the community, MindMyElder may review, pause, or request changes to content that falls outside our non-medical companionship scope.

If something feels unclear, unsafe, or outside the platform's scope, you can contact us for review.

Join families and companions building reassuring, human connections at home.